Large wants to return to the Father as the embodiment of the Law | The Sixth Clan
Modern fathers hooves philosopher Ger Groot not quite back to the fifties, but they should indeed sinterklaasjournaal remain aloof and embody the Law. Actually, a bit like in the fifties. He advocated in a major article in Trouw newspaper. The core of his story: sinterklaasjournaal
Of course, his schedule and his work schedule will be filled sinterklaasjournaal in something else, he walks more often behind the stroller and has discovered that changing the diapers actually a very pleasant pastime can be. But the task he has to perform in education has not changed substantially. Whether he likes it or not, he has the law and dare to dare. That makes him father, unmistakably, unyielding, and in that self-imposed (even for hemzelfs sometimes painful) detachment esteem and loveable.
Great comes to this statement in a story full of clichés tekenkrommend. In that story, unsupported by any facts or scientific test, he talks about the feminists have it all misunderstood. Moreover, single-parent families do worse than ordinary families. Often a mother at the head of the single-parent family, so large spoons soon the unproven conclusion that families do poorly because there is no father. And that really has nothing to do with poverty, caused by low benefits and runaway fathers who want to pay alimony. Plus wants a majority and get straight couple kids. So you do see a classical family with the father as the Authority is better.
About the father himself nothing but clichés. Previously they earned their living and they were strict, sinterklaasjournaal so that his mother could love. In the sixties it was completely wrong. When fathers were to suddenly discover their soft side and she tried to be buddies their child as best friend and then go great together against the authority of the mother. That did not work, so presto, not back to the fifties but actually it again. Dad may well occasionally change a diaper, for the rest it is better if the aloof authority he is again.
My goodness. Why spend so much Wedding letters to this kind of circular reasoning and unsubstantiated gossip? What makes Great chooses such a distant father? What to do with such a picture of the man? The commentators sinterklaasjournaal also had by that they read old shit here. At the time of writing the first commentator calls immediately Adam, Eve, the rib and the ancient, so-called natural order. Other commentators respond by saying that Dutch men are not the gaze shift to Asia for nothing. In terms There the females are docile and can, at least the Dutch man to grab his predestined sinterklaasjournaal role by nature.
I want best meekly follow a man, making coffee for him, do the housework for him and make sure I stay nice looking. But then I also expect that he deserves the money for me, me against the household sinterklaasjournaal money also gives ample monthly allowance for clothes, etc., pay alimony if he runs off there (I have set my career sacrificed for him), the chores sinterklaasjournaal at home doing , car maintenance and bicycle tires sticking. But where do you find such a man these days? Oh yeah, he should also look a little good of course.
The only thing clear from the article Great and the reactions to the piece, is that the ratio between men and women is shifting. That always raises uncertainty and unease. But apart you do not advocate a return to the old gender roles. Unease that by secretly through the back door With father sinterklaasjournaal as lord of creation and commander over all, the man who cut the meat on Sunday. The stresses caused by the traditional family ideal yielded books like The Feminine Mystique, and caused a first, second and third wave feminism.
By idamels, on November 21, 2010 at 4:35 pm, under Culture, Economics, Family Life, Opinion piece. Tags: single parents, Ger Groot family, fifties, gender roles, fatherhood. 8 comments
If you read carefully, he simply defends a classic anti-feminist standpoint: the social relations erode - to violence to it - because the family relationships 'disturbed' are hit. Father's will is no longer law, sometimes his mother's authority, everything sinterklaasjournaal goes wrong. sinterklaasjournaal Feed even lesbians (without dad) children. (Which are also the daughters of gay couples in this picture?) Maybe there is something to be said about parents who do not have authority as valid - no idea, I do not know the studies - but'm talking about parents. And if you're talking about changing roles father, do it there then, instead of immediately "before everything was better 'to go cry. The cr
